Write a Professional Wedding Speech

Write an outline. Before giving body to your speech, you must first form the skeleton. Jot down your key ideas in the order you want to present them. You can worry about the actual words later.

Relate to your audience. As you begin to form your speech, consider who will be listening. Ask yourself how you can grab your audience’s attention. If appropriate, you may consider choosing some amusing anecdotes that coincide with your topic. If you feel uncomfortable including jokes and anecdotes, you can also attract your audience by introducing some interesting facts regarding your topic. Do whatever makes you feel the most comfortable.

Flesh out the body of your speech. This is just a rough draft, so don’t worry about making it perfect. Using your outline, develop your thoughts and ideas in more coherent sentences. Be conversational in your approach, since you will actually be speaking the words.


Read your speech out loud. Listen to your words as you say them to see if they make sense and flow well. Edit your speech as you talk, making changes that work better for you. Continue to read your speech until you are pleased with what you read.

Practice your speech on someone else. Allow them to be honest with you regarding your speech. You would rather have someone criticize you while you can make changes than to present your speech with a lot of errors to a real audience. Adjust your speech accordingly.

Learn your speech. The most unprofessional speeches are presented by people who did not properly learn their speech beforehand. Just because you were the writer doesn’t mean you will remember all of the words. Take the time to really know your speech so that you can present it confidently.

Even if you’re not a writer, you can write a professional speech that will wow your audience and boost your confidence. Just follow these simple tips.

  1. Write a speech on what you know.
  2. Be confident.
  3. Relax! It will be over soon!
  4. Don't become overwhelmed if you make a mistake.
  5. Don't make your speech longer than necessary.
  6. Don't let the audience scare you; they're just human.